Positive parenting is extremely important for kids. At times, it becomes very difficult to say Yes to all the demands of your kids but there is always a way to say no by not saying them directly. It means taking an approach that is sensitive to children’s individual needs and addressing the typical challenges that arise in early childhood with empathy and respect.

Here are some ways you can bring in your day-to-day life to practice positive parenting with your kids:

This works quite well. When your kids ask for something which you cannot or would not like to give at that point in time, you can ask them to do a certain task and take it. 

But remember if the kid completes the task then don't break your promise. Personally I ask to spell a toy/activity/game what he/she is asking for. ;) Trust me, this never fails. Clever you see!

When a kid is having an issue and you tell her, Let's talk about it, she feels a lot more comfortable. Simply brush away the issue by scolding the kid sends a lot of messages to the kid which she brings in her personality. On the contrary, when you tell them to have a

conversation, they learn that every problem or issue can be solved through communication. 

So much of positive parenting is in the tone. Decide what rules are important to you, clearly communicate them to your child, and be consistent with enforcing those rules.

Though as a parent we think that you can not explain logic to a toddler. But in reality, you can explain to them the logic behind something you are asking them to do. You will be surprised that they take the logical reasoning very intelligently and abide by it. For example, if you tell a kid not to put his finger in the socket because their head will blow up or their body will shake, he will understand and not do this. If you keep telling him it is scary without telling him why it is scary, you will find him near the socket. 

There is always a reason for misbehavior though, whether it's as simple as a hungry or tired child, or more complicated like difficulties at school.

If you can understand the reason behind the misbehavior, it will be so much easier to find empathy for your child and respond with kindness. If you can't figure out the reason, just know that there is one. Your child loves you more than anything and wants to please you, so there is a reason if they are acting out.